Jenna + Andy Wedding 2009

Today on the blog I’m featuring the wedding of one of my best friends, Jenna. Her and I have known each other for just about 10 years, and I was so honored to have been a part of her wedding. Best of all, she had her wedding on a cruise! We sailed on the Carnival Destiny out of Ft. Lauderdale, Florida for a 3-day western Caribbean cruise. The ship was beautiful and so were the sights!

Click here to see a photo of Rochelle Matheson doing the Bride's hair!Click here to see a photo of a bride and Rochelle Matheson on a Carnival Cruise Lines ship balcony!

For Jenna’s hair I did medium width curl using a 1-inch marcel and pulled the curls apart to relax and separate them. She then put a white flower hairpiece in to complete her tropical look!

Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom on Carnival Cruise Lines!Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom on Carnival Cruise Lines!Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom on Carnival Cruise Lines!

Having your wedding on a cruise is a great way to do a destination wedding with less to plan! Cruise lines offer wedding packages which typically include the ceremony space, officiant, reception space, a wedding cake, dinner and drinks, bride’s bouquet in one total package. Not only is the wedding planning process half as stressful, after the wedding and reception, you realize that you just happen to be ON A CRUISE SHIP. It’s like a wedding reception that just keeps on going!

Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom on Carnival Cruise Lines!Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom on Carnival Cruise Lines!Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom on Carnival Cruise Lines!

Congrats Jenna & Andy! Thank you for inviting me to be a part of your big day!






Photography, Officiant, Flowers, Decor, Venue & Wedding Cake: Carnival Cruise Lines

Introducing Baltimore’s New Wedding Blog: Charm City Wed!


Have you ever had a secret so amazing that you couldn’t wait to tell everyone, but you had to wait until the moment was right? Well I have had the BIGGEST secret for a few months now, a secret project that Serena of Love by Serena Wedding & Lifestyle Photography and I have been working on feverishly, and finally today I can spill the beans!

Serena and I have created Baltimore’s newest blog, Charm City Wed! Our pre-launch landing page is up today, and we are accepting vendor applications, submissions, and signups for our newsletter. This website will be a source of wedding inspiration and a premier wedding vendor resource for the greater Baltimore area. After meeting a few months ago and discussing our frustration that this kind of site didn’t yet exist in Baltimore, we set out to create it ourselves. We hope that you all will enjoy this site as much as we will enjoy doing it! Make sure to also check out our Pinterest for more inspiration, follow us on Twitter and like us on Facebook!

A special thanks to those who have helped and encouraged this new endeavor: Natalie and Krista from Bayside Bride, Bree from Capitol Romance, and Janelle from Baltimore Bride Magazine! And last but certainly not least, a huge THANK YOU to Serena’s husband Chad for coming up with our awesome tagline: Be More Inspired.
Click here to see a photo of the Charm City Wed website PreLaunch page!

Hairstyle Inspiration: Braids


Oh, how I love braids! It is one facet of hairstyling that never goes out of style. Whether it is a loose french braid in a romantic updo or a tightly braided bun, a fishtail braid or a 5-strand weave, braids are a beautiful way to style your hair.
Click here to see a photo of a bridesmaid with a fishtail braid!This braid is a fishtail braid, which I loved doing on this bridesmaid for my friend Holly’s wedding last year. (Thank you to another friend, Richard Wilke, the photographer, for this gorgeous photo!) I have a few brides already this year who are having braids incorporated into their up-do’s, and I can’t wait!

All of the braids I’ve been seeing and doing lately have got me looking into different braided styles I would love to try. Whether you’re a bride-to-be looking for some braided hairstyle inspiration, or just looking for a quick style you can do yourself, check out my newest board I created on Pinterest! Some of the pins have links to tutorials, so don’t forget to check those out.

Braid Inspiration Board



What braids do you love? Want to know how to create one of the styles you see? Send me a tweet!

@hairbyrochelle

Annapolis Maritime Museum Styled Shoot

A few months ago I had the pleasure of working with Maryland Wedding Makeup and Amanda McMahon Photography on a styled shoot in Annapolis at the Annapolis Maritime Museum. We had a beautiful day and 2 beautiful models on this awesome shoot! Many thanks and much love to Jordan and Johnny for effortlessly looking awesome in all of these photos.Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom both in white!Click here to see a photo of a bride's blue shoes next to the grooms shoes!Click here to see a rose wedding bouquet with cameo!Click here to see a bride and groom on a pier in Annapolis!Click here to see a bride and groom with a brick wall backdrop!
To create Jordan’s style, I first curled her hair with a flat iron to give her a soft natural wave, then loosely french braided diagonally ending on the right side in a cascade of curls over her shoulder. Her feather hair accessory was created by Kolleen Kilduff of Design By Night, a very talented crafter who can create a feather hairpiece of literally ANY color you need: she can dye the feathers to match!
Click here to see a photo of a curly braided side ponytail updo with a feather hairpiece!Click here to see a bride and groom by a rocky ocean shore in Annapolis!Love Annapolis? Looking for more nautical wedding inspiration? Head over to Bayside Bride, Annapolis-based wedding blog extraordinaire. You won’t be disappointed!Click here to see a bride and groom outside of the Annapolis Maritime Museum!Click here to see a groom standing by a rocky ocean shore in Annapolis!

My Engagement Session {The Mathesons}


Today’s post I dedicate to my wonderful husband, Matt! We’re celebrating our 2nd anniversary… of the day we met. I’ve been planning on sharing our engagement photos for a while now, so today seemed like the perfect day to do so.

Matt and I had our engagement photos taken by my friend Serena Severtson of Love By Serena Photography. I will take this moment to unapologetically promote her and encourage anyone looking for an engagement / wedding / maternity photographer to contact her! She is extremely talented and wonderful to work with.

Why not post these on the anniversary of our engagement? Well, we actually celebrate this day more than the actual day we got engaged. In fact I couldn’t really remember the day he put the ring on my finger until I took out my wedding album and checked. Why? Our relationship before we got married I believe would be classified under the “whirlwind” category: from the day we met to the day we got married was just over 6 months. (I don’t apologize for this. When you know, you know!) So we knew we were going to get married and had already started planning our wedding well before he had a chance to get the ring made. The day that he actually pulled out the ring and asked me, although special, was not as memorable as the day we met.

On the night of February 26th, 2010, I was at my church helping with a kids art show we had put on to raise money for Haiti earthquake relief. From my vantage point in the kitchen, I saw a guy I did not recognize sitting in a chair not talking to anyone. My bubbly, outgoing self walked over to him and sat down next to him and started talking. The word-for-word conversation is lost to my bad memory, but I do remember talking about The Big Bang Theory and agreeing how awesome of a show it was, and discovering that we both had a heart to befriend and help the homeless in Baltimore City. He was goofy, funny, and had a loving heart. I was smitten.

We had our photos taken in Eutaw Place Median Park, the park right in front of our apartment. This was also the location of our outdoor block party wedding! (I’ll post those on our wedding anniversary in September!)

Can we pause a moment and take a look at my hair?! Man, do I miss having my long hair. Really miss it. After our wedding, I had 11 inches cut off and donated my hair. It was wonderful and I don’t regret doing it, but now I want that hair back!

My hair is naturally very straight, so I achieved my curls using a flexible hold hairspray and hot rollers. If you do not own a set of hot rollers, I would highly recommend buying one. Putting your hair in a hot roller set is faster and easier than using a curling iron, and creates a soft natural curl. (Also consider going outside to check the mail or walk the dog while your rollers are in to see what kind of looks you get. I love doing that.)

I swear, my husband has springs in his legs and can jump higher than physics allow. I love this photo of us jumping off the bench, in which I jumped as high as I possibly could to match his height. Of course he put forth almost no effort and still jumped higher than me.

The brick wall photos were taken at an elementary school right next to the park, the same school in which our church is held, and the same school in which the art show we met at was held. Serena had some creative ideas as to what to write, and we had some as well…

“Wait, is that a Dharma symbol from LOST?!” Yes it is!… almost. We made our own.
Just an FYI, if you’ve never watched LOST and have no idea what I’m talking about, #1: GO WATCH LOST. It’s the best show ever. There is no #2. Just go do it.

The show LOST has a special place in our hearts, because we started dating, fell in love, got engaged, and got married all while watching all 6 seasons on DVD. I had already been watching it, but Matt had never seen it before. And as all my fellow Losties know, you have to start from the beginning, so we did.

LOL at this one. Serena happened to shutter right at the moment I pretended to be Michael… you know…. “WWAAAAAAAAAAAALLTTT!!!!!!” Matt didn’t think it was amusing. Hahaha.

The Love Hatch, aka The Matheson Household, established Sept. 4th, 2010.

I love you, Matthew!

something borrowed…

We are OH SO excited to be a vendor at the Borrowed Event, a wedding show for the creative “I Do”!

click here to see a purple bow from the Borrowed Event at the AVAM!

This will be our first show, and we can’t wait to meet all of the lovely brides who will be there!



The show will be happening on Sunday, April 1st at the American Visionary Art Museum in Baltimore. Not only is the AVAM a beautiful venue to have your wedding (here’s a wedding we did there last year) it is also a fantastic museum worth visiting.

Click here to see a bride and groom outside of the American Visionary Arts Museum in Baltimore, MD!
Here’s what you need to know:

  • Want to go and don’t have tickets yet? You’re in luck; we have 4 free tickets to give away! Email us at info[at]hair-by-rochelle[dot]com and tell us about your creative wedding planning details! Winners will be picked March 9th and will be notified by email!

  • Borrowed Event interviewed every single vendor participating in the show, so you all can get to know them a bit before meeting them to get a feel for their style! They spoke with Rochelle, Owner/Operator and Lead Hairstylist of Hair-by-Rochelle, LLC. She had so much fun being interviewed; click here to read what she had to say!

  • This show will be a place for you to not just meet us vendors, but also see our creative side! We are going to decorate and present our booths in the most creative ways possible, because YOU the attendee will get to vote on who’s booth is most creative! Get ready to see what we have in store…

  • We’re giving away coupons that you can only get if you attend the show, AND doing free demos for attendees! So please come visit us, you don’t want to miss it!


We can’t wait to meet you all at the Borrowed Event!

Emily + Jeremy Wedding 2010

Lately I’ve been thinking about the summer and how much I CAN’T WAIT for warm weather to be here again. Summer wedding inspiration boards are starting to pop up, many with pictures of beach weddings. {sigh, the beach.} Seeing one recently reminded me that I had the pleasure of working a beachside wedding a couple of years ago, and I wanted to share the pictures from this awesome wedding!


I met Emily through a mutual friend, and after meeting her and her fiance Jeremy I knew their big day was going to be beautiful. The ceremony took place at Seacolt Beach House in Bethany Beach, Delaware on the large back deck with beautiful views of the ocean. (This house was A. MA. ZING.)


Click to see a picture of a bride and groom with owl decor!


Click here to see a photo of the bride's sparkly high heeled feathered shoes for her wedding!

For Emily’s hair, I did a unique side up-do. I teased the crown, then worked the hair from the bottom rolling it up and to the left to create the horizontal twist. I then finished it with a large pin curl on the left accented by hairpieces purchased on Etsy and made by the bride!

Click here to see a photo of a bride with a teased side updo bun with a feather hairpieceClick here to see a photo of a bride and groom on a boardwalk to a private beach in Bethany Beach, Delaware

Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom being married at a private beach house outside in Bethany Beach, Delaware

Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom kissing at the altar outside in Bethany Beach, DelawareClick to see a photo of a bride and groom walking down the aisle after being pronounced man and wife in Bethany Beach, Delaware

Now THAT is a kiss! (And yes, her hair did stay in after he held her tight!)



Click here to see a bride and groom inside a private beach house Seacolt Beach House in Bethany Beach, Delaware

Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your big day! Many Blessings! ♥



Photographer: friends and family

Venue: Seacolt Beach House – Bethany Beach, Delaware

Dress: Betsy Robinson Bridal

Shoes: Nordstrom

Makeup Artist: Ashley Scheiner

Florist: Sister in Law, Angie Lucabaugh

Amanda + Noam Wedding 2011


I had the pleasure of working with Amanda and Noam last August. When Amanda first emailed me asking if I was available on her wedding day, I immediately replied: “Are you sure you wrote the correct wedding date? August 11th is a Thursday.” She wrote me back and said Yep! That’s correct! Looking back, its a good thing it was that Thursday… it was sunny and beautiful for their outdoor ceremony, and then Friday & Saturday it was rainy and miserable outside. It was meant to be!

I am one of the few types wedding vendors that gets to be a part of the behind the scenes hustle and bustle on the wedding day, and I love being privy to the moments before the big moment.
Click here to see Rochelle Matheson doing the bride's hair on her wedding day!

At one point while I was doing Amanda’s hair, almost everyone left the room, and only her, myself, her cousin, and the photographer were left. I soon found out this was carefully planned, as her sister brought out her guitar from hiding and Amanda began to sing. She was practicing a song to sing to Noam during the wedding; a surprise to him. The song she sung is one of my favorites, Ingrid Michaelson’s The Way I Am. Amanda has a beautiful voice, and I’m happy this photo isn’t zoomed in, because I’m definitely crying while curling her hair.
Click here to see a bride singing while getting ready for her wedding!
Amanda and Noam were married outside at the Pier V Hotel in Baltimore’s Inner Harbor. The hotel and grounds are beautiful, and they had an equally beautiful day to match! For Amanda’s hair I did a left part and swooping bang into a side pin-curled chignon.
Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom at their outdoor wedding at Pier V Hotel in Baltimore, MD Jewish Wedding Pin-Curled Chignon

Click here to see a 3 tier white wedding cake with yellow flowers!Click here to see a photo of a yellow flower pomander aisle decoration!Click here to see a photo of 3 flower girls in yellow dresses and yellow headbands!Click here to see a photo of a flower girl running outside!

Congrats Amanda + Noam!


Click here to see a photo of the bride and groom kissing at their Jewish wedding!

Photographer: J Row Photography
Venue: Pier V Hotel
Dress: The Bridal Boutique
Florist: Divine Designs & Events
Makeup Artist: Jamie Lebow
Cake: SugarBakers Cakes

Why Every Wedding Photographer Should Get on Two Bright Lights


With anything that you want to buy, whether a good or service, you want to know how well it performs. You want to see reviews. You want to see what it can do.

We all know the adage; “Pictures are Worth a Thousand Words.” Well in my profession, pictures are essential: the most important thing I do is constantly update my portfolio. As an on-site hairstylist focusing on weddings and other one-time events, I do not have a repeat clientele like a stylist in a salon. Pictures are absolutely necessary for me to book new clients. A bride-to-be has to be able to see what I’ve done in the past and what I could possibly accomplish on her big day before she would even consider hiring me. (And of course with weddings, I hope never to have a repeat client!)


Click here to see a photo of Loren + Craig on their wedding day!

The most important way I keep my portfolio updated requires me to obtain photos from wedding photographers from weddings I worked on. I have always emailed the photographer personally to ask for specific photos, and waited until they sent them to me. This worked well for a while, but now as I’m booking more and more, it has become painfully obvious when I am on wedding #10 and I haven’t gotten to update my portfolio from wedding #1, because the photographer has not gotten around to email me the photos I requested. This puts me in an awkward position: I don’t want to seem like a nag constantly asking for photos, but… I need those photos! Now, I do understand that photographers are busy. Think about this: for the amount of time they spend behind the camera shooting a wedding, they spend 5x as much time editing the photos from said wedding. Phew! That’s a lot of work in front of a computer. So I want to make my request as easy as possible for them to fulfill.

I also see the flaw in how I, and other vendors alike, request photos for use on their sites. After we all individually email the photographer, they then have to sort through their huge list of photos to find the ones we specifically requested, upload them, and send them. What a pain! I can only imagine what goes through the photographer’s mind when they get 10 emails from 10 different vendors: the baker asking for pictures of the cake, the hairstylist asking for bridal party shots, the florist asking for the pictures of the ceremony and tables, the DJ asking for that “really cool shot where I was dancing with the bride!” and on and on and on.

Wouldn’t it be great if there were a platform, a site, something, that a photographer could upload all of their photos to, where only the vendors that worked with them on a specific event would have permission to download the pictures for their portfolios? So that they only needed to upload their photos once and that’s it?

Guess what?! That platform ALREADY EXISTS!! Say hello to Two Bright Lights.


Created in 2009, Two Bright Lights is an image sharing service and online submission tool that started out for wedding industry professionals, but now also is used by photographers and creatives in multiple industries. It is just what the wedding industry needs. So why aren’t more photographers using it? I don’t know the answer, but I’m here to encourage every single wedding photographer to get on there. What could possibly be better than only having to upload your photos once for 10 different vendors? You’ll no longer be nagged by each vendor for the photos they want, and takes hours of work away from your already heavy workload.

How does it work? Simple. You, the photographer, creates an account on Two Bright Lights. You can choose the free account or premium account based on your needs. Next, you upload your photos from an event, i.e., “Jennifer & Mark’s Wedding”. You can then tag the vendors that worked with you that day (i.e. Hair-by-Rochelle, Joe Shmoe Photography, Jane Smith Makeup, etc.) or tag them later. For a vendor to obtain the photos for their use, they first have to set up their own account on Two Bright Lights. If they have been tagged by a photographer, they will have immediate access to view and download the photos they need. If they haven’t been tagged, they can search for events they were a part of, and after a simple request and approval by the photographer, they will then be able to view and download the photos they want.

Baltimore based wedding and lifestyle photographer, Serena Severtson of Love by Serena Photography, has used Two Bright Lights for just over a year and loves it:


“Two Bright Lights allows me to save time, avoid tedious tasks, and work efficiently! It simplified the task of sharing photos with others… I would HIGHLY recommend Two Bright Lights to any vendor – but especially photographers! It’s a fantastic way to get your work out there. Vendors want to share your work from weddings they’ve participated in and it makes the publication submission process quick and easy.”



It was only after working on a wedding with Serena that I first learned of Two Bright Lights. She encouraged me to sign up, and after I did I was able to download the pictures from that wedding instantly. So easy! (I’m happy to call Serena a friend, who did mine and my husband’s engagement session as well!)

Click here to see a wedding proposal engagement photo of Matt and Rochelle


Want more information about Two Bright Lights? Visit their FAQ page to start, they’ve covered more there than I could! Still not convinced? Drop them an email! They would love to chat.

Happy Photo Sharing, and Good Luck to all vendors in the 2012 Wedding Season!

Sarah + Brian Wedding 2011


Every once in a while, everyone has the moment where they make a new friend and you instantly click. You just know that your personalities are a match and you feel like you’ve known that person forever. I had the pleasure of meeting someone like that when I met Sarah last summer, who was looking for a hairstylist for her October wedding. When we met for her trial, I found out that not only was she was from Western New York like me, she also loved dogs, drinking wine, and Being Awesome. Who wouldn’t love this girl?!


Sarah and Brian got married at the American Visionary Art Museum in Federal Hill. This eclectic space and beautiful grounds fit their personalities to a T! For Sarah’s hair I did a low centered bun and side twists to create the symmetrical look she desired.


Click here to see a bride and groom outside of the American Visionary Art Museum in Baltimore, MD!
Click here to see a photo of a bride's updo classic bun with tulle and beaded headpiece!

Rochelle gets an absolute recommendation from me!…[she] was extremely relaxed and flexible, and was timely and confirmed everything a few days before [the wedding] putting me at ease since the email showed up before I had a chance to frantically write one.

Click here to see a photo of a multi-colored bridal bouquet!Click here to see Baltimore Ravens and Syracuse Orangemen themed wedding cupcakes and cake!

The programs and cupcakes tied in 2 loves of the bride and groom: The Baltimore Ravens and the Syracuse Orangemen!

Click here to see a photo of Baltimore Ravens themed wedding programs!Click here to see a photo of a bride and groom outside of the American Visionary Art Museum in Baltimore, MD!Click here to see a photo of a bride's symmetrical dress and purple shoes!Click here to see a bridal party in the American Visionary Art Museum in Baltimore, MD!Click here to see the groom and groomsmen walking with sunglasses!

Much Love to this awesome couple!

Click here to see a bride and groom with fake mustaches, laughing!
Photographer: Erik Annis of Kitestring Studio
Venue: American Visionary Art Museum
Hairpiece: created by the bride
Makeup Artist: Jasmen Davis
Cupcake Baker: Evelyn Seaman (friend of the bride)
Florist: Fantastic Flowers
Dress: Matthew Christopher, 2008 Collection
Boutique: Betsy Robinson’s Bridal